moral of the story, don't use romance as a means for true emotional nourishment. have ur own stuff goin on in ur life, make frends u can be real and open with along the way, and then u can chase romance
cuz if ur trying to fill up ur emotional nourishment with just romance, ur headed down a path of turmoil, heartbreak, and drama. u will be incapacitated in life.
if ur already emotionally nourished in every other domain and u just want a partner, then ur in a good spot cuz u can enjoy ur time with them but also have the freedom to take a break or even end it if it starts gettin toxic. plus you can be open and honest with ur frends and the relationship won't turn dependent or codependent